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The following is an excerpt from the classic book, The Spiritual Life: A Treatise on Ascetical and Mystical Theology by the Very Reverend Adolphe Tanquerey, S.S., D.D.
III. Anger3
The vice of anger is a
perversion of that instinctive feeling that prompts us, upon attack, to resist
force with force. We shall speak of: (1) its nature, (2) its malice, (3) its
remedies.
n1. ST.
GREGORY, "Moral.," 1. V, c. 45, P. L., LXXV, 727-730; ST. THOM., IIa IIae, q.
158; "De Malo," q. 12; DESCURET, op. cit., t. II, 1-57; THOMAS, op. cit., ch.
IX, p. 94-103; LAUMONIER, op. cit., ch VI.
I. The nature of Anger
#853. There is a passion of anger and a sentiment of anger.
(1) Anger considered as a passion is a violent need of reaction caused by physical or moral suffering or annoyance. This vexation excites a violent emotion which arouses our energies to overcome the difficulty. We are then prone to vent our anger upon persons, animals and things.
There are two principal forms of anger: the redruge of the strong, and the white rage of the weak. In the first kind of anger the heart throbs violently and pushes the blood to the surface; breathing becomes rapid, the face reddens, the neck swells, the veins expand under the skin, the hair stands on end, the eyes sparkle and bulge out of their sockets, the nostrils widen and speech becomes raucous and halting, the muscles gather strength, the whole bodily frame is set for the onslaught and an irresistible motion strikes, breaks, or violently brushes aside the obstacle. White rage causes the heart to contract; breathing becomes difficult, the face assumes a death-like pallor, a cold sweat oozes from the brow, the jaws clench, and the person keeps an ominous silence. However, such pent up agitation ends by bursting forth into a rage and finds an outlet in the discharge of violent blows.
#854. (2) Anger as a sentiment consists in a vehement desire to repel and punish an aggressor.
A) There is a lawful sentiment of anger, a righteous indignation, which is the ardent, but rational desire to visit upon the guilty a just retribution. Thus it was that Our Lord was roused to anger against the money-changers whose traffic defiled His Father's house,1 whilst on the other hand Heli, the high-priest, was severely reproved for not having curbed the shameful conduct of his sons.
That anger be legitimate, it must be: a) just as to its object, seeking to punish only those that deserve punishment, and only in the measure in which they have merited it; b) tempered by moderation in its execution, going no further than the offense demands and adhering to the requirements of justice, C) animated by motives of charity, not degenerating into sentiments of hatred, but aiming solely at the restoration of order and the amendment of the guilty. If any of these conditions are lacking, there is moral guilt. Lawful anger belongs chiefly to those in authority, like parents and superiors, yet it is at times the right and the duty of those in the ranks to resort to it in order to defend their common interests and prevent the ascendancy of the wicked, for there are men whom kindness fails to move and whom the fear of punishment alone can touch. n1. John, II, 13-17.
#855. B) Anger as a capital vice is a violent and inordinate desire of punishing others, regardless of the three conditions we have noted. Often anger is accompanied by hatred, which seeks not merely to repel aggression but to take revenge. Such a sentiment is more deliberate, more lasting, and has, therefore, more serious consequences.
#856. (3) There are degrees of intensity in anger: a) at first, it consists in a mere impulse of impatience; the least annoyance, the least failure elicits a show of temper. b) This is followed by agitation which produces undue irritation and which manifests dissatisfaction by uncontrolled gestures. c) At times anger reaches the stage of violence, culminating not only in words but even in blows. d) It can develop into fury, which is temporary insanity: in this stage one is no longer master of self, one breaks forth into incoherent speech and into such wild gesticulation that it would seem real insanity. e) Lastly, anger at times degenerates into implacable hatred, breathing vengeance, and going so far as to desire death to the adversary. It is important to discern these degrees of anger in order to estimate its malice.
II. The Malice of Anger
It may be considered in itself and in its effects.
#857. (1) In order to determine the exact malice of anger considered in itself we must make important distinctions:--
A) When anger simply consists in a transient impulse of passion, it is of itself a venial sin, because it exceeds proper measure, but it is only a venial sin because, as we presuppose, there is no violation of the great virtues of justice or charity. However, there are instances when anger is so intense that self-control is lost and grave insult is offered to the neighbor. If these impulses, even though born of passion, are deliberate and willful they constitute a grievous fault; but often this is not the case.
#858. B) Anger that goes as far as hatred and rancor, when deliberate and willful, is of itself a mortal sin, for it grievously violates charity and often justice. It is in this sense that Our Lord says: "But I say to you that whosoever is angry with his brother shall be in danger of the judgment. And whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council. And whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire."1 Still, if this impulse of hatred is not fully deliberate, the fault will only be venial. n1. Matth., V, 22.
#859. (2) The effects of anger when not repressed are at times terrible.
A) Seneca has described them in expressive words. He attributes to anger treasons, murders, poisonings, divisions in families, dissensions and civil wars with all their horrible aftermath.1 Even when anger does not reach such extremes, it is the source of a great number of faults, because it disturbs the peace of families and gives rise to fearful enmities. n1. "De ira," 1. I, n. 2.
860. B) From the point of view of perfection, it is, St. Gregory1 tells us, a great obstacle to spiritual progress, for if it is not curbed it makes us lose: 1) good Judgment, mental poise; 2) gentleness which is the charm of social relations; 3) the sense of Justice, for passion blinds us to the rights of others; 4) the spirit of recollection, so indispensable to an intimate union with God, to peace of soul, to a ready compliance with the inspirations of grace. n1. "Moral.," 1. c., P. L, LXXV, 724.
III. Remedies against Anger
These must attack the passion of anger and the sentiment of hatred which it at times engenders.
#861. (1) We must make use of every means at our disposal in order to overcome the passion of anger.
A) Physical hygiene offers some means that combine to prevent or to soothe anger, such as correct diet, lukewarm baths, abstention from stimulants and particularly from intoxicants. Such hygienic measures have importance in this matter because of the close union that exists between body and soul. However, account must be taken of temperament and health, and therefore prudence demands the advice of a physician.1 n1. Cf. DESCURET, "La Medecine des Passions;" J. LAUMONIER, "La therapeutique... p. 167-174.
#862. B) Withal, moral hygiene
is even better. a) A good preventive of anger is to acquire the habit of
reflecting before acting so as not to allow ourselves to be swept away by the
first assaults of passion. This is uphill work, but most effective. b) When
despite all, this passion has taken our heart by surprise, "it is better to
drive it away speedily than enter into a parley; for, if we give it ever so
little leisure, it will become mistress of the place, like the serpent, who
easily draws in his whole body where he can once get in his bead.... You must at
the first alarm, speedily muster your forces; not violently, not tumultuously,
but mildly, and yet seriously."1 Otherwise, whilst trying to repress
anger with impetuosity we should but add to our perturbation. c) The better to
check anger, it is useful to divert the mind, that is to say, to turn our
thoughts to anything except the one thing liable to excite it. Therefore, we
must banish all thought of past injuries, all suspicion, etc. d) "We must invoke
the assistance of God when we find ourselves excited to wrath, in imitation of
the Apostles when they were tossed by the wind and the storm upon the waters;
for He will command our passions to cease, and a great calm shall ensue."2
n1. ST. FRANCIS DE
SALES, "Introd. to a Devout Life," P. III, C. VIII.
n2. ST. FR. DE SALES,
loc. cit.
#863. (2) When anger gives rise to sentiments of hatred, of rancor, or of vengeance, we can uproot these only by charity based on the love of God. At such times we must remind ourselves that we are all children of the same heavenly Father, all incorporated into the same Christ, all called to the same eternal happiness, and that these great truths exclude every sentiment of hatred. Therefore: a) we should recall the words of the Lord's Prayer: "Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us," and since we crave divine pardon, we should more willingly pardon our enemies. b) We should not lose sight of the example of Our Lord, still calling Judas His friend in the very moment of his treason, praying on the Cross for His executioners, and we should ask Him to give us the strength we need to forgive and forget. c) We should avoid all thoughts of injuries received and of what relates to them. Perfect souls pray for the conversion of those who have hurt them, and in this prayer they find a wonderful balm for the wounds of their souls.
"My child--We must test you at all times to help you should you fall out of grace in anger. Anything that is being said with anger shall never be accepted in Heaven." - Jesus, June 18, 1988
The amazing Bayside Prophecies
These prophecies came from Jesus, Mary, and the
saints to Veronica Lueken at Bayside, NY, from 1968 to 1995:
DO NOT SPEAK OUT IN ANGER
"I must now caution
you in the days ahead, you must not be lead or mislead by the events that the
evil one will bring upon you in his attempt to destroy My Son's House. You must
help your priests. It is not constructive to speak out in anger against My Son's
House. If you have anything to say that you feel is being done wrong, go to the
ones concerned, your priests, your bishops. Do not spread words among the
disbelievers, those waiting to take anything that can be thrown back to destroy
My Son's House. You must realize now that the trouble within My Son's House has
been caused by defiled man of perdition - the antichrist, who has been loosed
among you in this final battle! If you would put aside your worldly pleasures,
your pampering of your body, your eyes would no longer be blinded. You could see
the existence of the evil one in your country - but no! You have chosen to cast
Us aside for temporary pleasures. Those who have loved Us enough to care - there
is nothing to fear, for We will extend Our Mercy far and wide." - Our Lady,
April 3, 1971
HUMAN FRAILTIES
"I am well aware, My child, of
your sorrow in not being upon My sacred grounds, the Shrine. However, remember I
have told you that you will return. Persevere, the time is growing near. [the
above alludes to a change in the apparition site due to strenuous and sometimes
violent objections by local residents]
"Yes, there
is a spring upon the grounds; of waters for cure. When the time is right, the
Eternal Father shall bring the waters up.
"The enemy
stands guard; the deceived children of God, My child...you must pray for them.
If they receive the light, because of your prayers and the prayers of others,
they, too, shall understand. They have not received this light because too few
have prayed for them. They give themselves over to the human frailty of anger
and judgment. Pray for them, and you will see a miracle." - Our Lady,
February 10, 1976
NO PLACE FOR ANGER IN YOUR HEART
"My children,
pray a constant vigilance of prayer, I beg you, for you do not know what is soon
to come upon you. Pray for your bishops, My child. There is no place for anger
in your heart, but there must be always charity and prayer." - Our Lady,
December 7, 1978
PROFANITY AND ANGER
"And, My children, warn
others throughout the world that they must not use My Son's name in profanity
and anger. My Son's name is being abused to the point now where the Eternal
Father has His heavy hand near the Ball that sets at the foot of His throne." -
Our Lady, July 1, 1985
BLACK PRINCE OF HELL
"Be guided by the Holy
Spirit that comes to you through the Eternal Father. In the darkness He will
guide those who keep Him in their Hearts. Our Father is the Lord, High God in
Heaven. Defiled man knows his father as the black prince of hell, and this
father of the dark abyss spreads destruction, fear, violence, hatred, murder of
innocent babies. Hear Me now, and remember what I say, you have brought the
sword upon you by your own actions! For as the Father gave you a free will to
choose your road - if you sought not the grace necessary to stay on the right
road, it is because there were too few prayers, too little who cared to save
themselves or you!" - Our Lady, April 3, 1971
HATRED AND DECEPTION
"Russia has the upper hand
now at this time in world peace or world destruction. You must understand, the
heart of the atheist is closed to mercy and goodness; a darkened soul has shut
out the light. And they seek nothing but the destruction of any man, woman, or
child who stands in their way, to assume and gain through hatred and deception
among families, and also, the ruination of the lives of the children of all
families." - Our Lady, April 5, 1985
HATE AND DESTRUCTION
"My Mother counsels you well
when She warns you of compromise with the enemies of your God, the dangers that
you bring into your country. My children, the words of atheists hold no weight;
there is no trust in the ungodly man, and you cannot consort with them, for you
will love one and hate the other. Is there not a spirit of hate now against all
of the personages of Heaven?
"My children, awaken
from your slumber. Shall those to be counted, saved, shall they be only in the
few? My children, that will be your decision. I repeat: while the world cries
peace, peace, love and brotherhood, they sow hate and destruction! The words
that come out of the mouth do not come from the heart! Words of destruction! The
Eternal Father, He looks into your heart. No man can set himself to judge
another, but you cannot hide your heart from the Eternal Father." - Jesus,
February 10, 1977
CHILDREN BEING CONDITIONED TO HATE
"My Heart
bleeds for what I look upon! These poor children, their souls and bodies
destroyed by the enemy that you have allowed to enter into your country. These
children suffer at the hands of their elders. Poison has been placed into their
bodies to destroy them! The destruction of the bodies is as nothing for when
this destruction comes into the soul, then, My children, the tears may fall for
the anguish of knowing the loss for all eternity. There is no love left in the
hearts of your children. They are being conditioned to hate! To destroy! All
parents must look now, into the days that lie before you. You will see how your
children will turn upon you. Yes, you will receive and reap the products of your
laxity. Your city is as a cesspool! All the evils come as a nucleus here and fan
out. When the hand comes upon you, you will be leveled for your licentiousness,
your greed, your immorality! The children must be saved for they are the
innocent victims of their elders! Parents who have grown lax as they seek the
pleasures of the world before the spiritual welfare of their children! their
children's souls!" - Our Lady, September 7, 1971
"DO NOT FOLLOW THE SCOFFERS"
"Do not follow the
scoffers who continue to say, 'His promise has not and will not come true, to
return in the Second Coming.' I assure you I shall come to you all as a thief in
the night. Little will you be prepared unless you listen to My Mother's counsel
and keep your heart open for the truth. The more you seek riches in this life,
the less you will have in Heaven, for they do not coincide, My child and My
children. You cannot have a god, symbolized by money, before you, for you will
love one and hate the other. And whom will you hate, My children, but Me?" -
Jesus, September 7, 1985
CHILDREN
BEING TAUGHT TO SIN, TO HATE
"My children, remove from your households
all secular writings. Read only your Bible, the Book of love and life. Your
children are being exposed to mind control. Your children are being taught to
sin, to hate, to murder the elderly and the aged. Father against son, mother
against daughter--strife within the household, as satan seeks to claim the souls
of the young.
"The Commandments of the Eternal
Father were written in full; the construction of My Son's Church was directed in
full. All will be found written by the founding Fathers of the Church in the
Bible, your Book of life and love. Pastors in My Son's Church, whatever are you
seeking to reform! You had the truth, you had the light, but with itching ears
you are listening to demons." - Our Lady, May 23, 1979
DEMONS
FILLED WITH HATE AND MALICE
"My children, there is nothing to gain by
allowing demons to rule your lives, for demons are filled with hate and malice,
destruction and death. No good lies within the supernatural of demons. It is the
world of satan. And you have allowed your world to be taken over by satan, the
father of all liars, the master of deceit, and a murderer from the beginning." -
Jesus, November 21, 1977
"WITHOUT
MY SON YOU ARE LOST"
"Without My Son you are lost. A godless nation shall
fall. A nation that has been eaten away and rotted by sin shall fall. A nation
that has turned itself back and regressed to a state of animal living bordering
on all sins of the flesh and impurity; given over to all manner of seeking
things of the world; power, lust, envy, hate, murders, abortions, worship of
false idols; loving money, power, and lacking the instinct of survival when
survival can only be reached by pleading from them to the merciful heart of the
Eternal Father." - Our Lady, June 13, 1981
DARK
SEEDS OF HATE AND ENVY
"My children, understand Us: We do not come with
messages to upset you or to make you afeared of Us; that is not necessary. All
you have to do is think, and use your hearts, not just your head; I say, not
just your head, for the scientist and those who are in charge of the souls of
your children are implanting in these souls dark seeds of hate, and envy, and
the need for materialism. O My children, I could repeat over and over again the
sins that make it a world of destruction for those who are trying to stay on the
narrow road to Heaven, while all obstacles are placed in his way." - Our
Lady, October 5, 1985
BREEDING
HATE AND MURDER
"There are many now, agents of satan. They were, My
child, in the synagogues of My time and they are now in the synagogues of your
time. However, they are not true men of God; therefore, I shall call them the
synagogue of Satan! They do not honor their God! They have set themselves to
honor man! God has no place in their lives! Man shall be a creature for worship!
"Detach yourselves from these secret societies! Do not be fooled by their
honeyed words of humanism and modernism, brotherhood and love; love, love. So
many words of love do We hear and what do you breed but hate and murder! By your
fruits will you be known!" - Our Lady, September 7, 1974
MEEKNESS
OF SOUL
"The Spirit of truth, My children, has been sent to you countless
numbers of times in the present and the past. Many have rejected them, choosing
to set themselves onto the road of error and damnation. Pride, intellectual
pride in the House of God is more a formidable barrier than outright
licentiousness! This barrier destroys! Rid yourselves of this pride and
arrogance! Return to your state of poverty of the body and meekness of the soul!
Unless you make yourselves like unto the little children, you will not enter
into the Kingdom." - Our Lady, July 1, 1974
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