"He that loveth
his son, frequently chastiseth him, that he may rejoice in his latter end,
and not grope after the doors of his neighbors." (Ecclesiasticus 30:1)
"A horse not
broken becometh stubborn, and a child left to himself will become
headstrong." (Ecclesiasticus 30:8)
"Give him not
liberty in his youth, and wink not at his devices. Bow down his neck while
he is young, and beat his sides while he is a child, lest he grow stubborn,
and regard thee not, and so be a sorrow of heart to thee." (Ecclesiasticus
30:11-12)
"He who spareth
the rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him correcteth him betimes."
(Proverbs 13:24)
"Withhold not
correction from a child: for if thou striketh him with a rod he shall not
die. Thou shalt beat him with a rod, and deliver his soul from hell."
(Proverbs 23:13-14)
Note: The
failure of a parent to correct a child for serious wrongs is objectively a
mortal sin. In Examination of Conscience for Adults: A Guide to Spiritual
Progress, Fr. Donald F. Miller lists as a mortal sin, "Have I
failed to correct and punish my children for serious wrongs, or to forbid
them to enter serious occasions of sin?" (p. 77, +Imprimatur: Archbishop
Moses E. Kiley, May 12, 1942). As Fr. Louis Colin emphasizes, "Who loves
much, chastises much." (Love One Another, p. 189)
"Humanism in your world has been
created by satan. You will bring back the adages of old of 'Spare the rod, and
you will spoil the child.' Discipline must be returned to the homes.” - St.
Joachim, July 25, 1973
Our Lady of
the Roses Bayside messages:
These messages came from Jesus, Mary, and the saints to Veronica
Lueken at Bayside, NY, from 1968 to 1995.
DO NOT FALL DOWN
“Do not fall down in your job as a parent, for you will also be held responsible
for the condition of your children’s souls when they are brought to Us.” -
Our Lady, February 11, 1971
LACK OF DISCIPLINE AND TRUE DIRECTION
St. Anne - "Oh, how sad to look upon the homes of earth! Whatever has become
of motherhood? Bad example, such poor example I see in many homes. You must
return to the simple life. The love of riches will destroy your souls.
"Involvement of the parents in worldly pursuits and living take them farther
from the graces of Heaven. The greatest offenses to the Father is the lack of
discipline and true direction of many parents on earth today. My children--"
Veronica - And Saint Anne is placing her hand out, like this.
St. Anne - "You still have time to make restitution and atonement, and to save
your children. You must bring them back to the Sacraments. You must be an
example of modesty and true faith to them. Children will learn much by your
example." - July 25, 1973
SPARE THE ROD, SPOIL THE CHILD
Veronica - Now Saint Joachim is walking over; he's standing now between
Saint Anne and Our Lady. Now Saint Joachim is standing there. He has a long--it
looks like a rod in his hand. And he's standing there holding the rod up, and
he's saying:
St. Joachim - "In one hand you will hold the Book of life, and the other,
discipline."
Veronica - And he's brandishing the stick, like this.
St. Joachim - "Humanism in your world has been created by satan. You will bring
back the adages of old of 'Spare the rod, and you will spoil the child.'
Discipline must be returned to the homes.”- July 25, 1973
DISCIPLINE AND TRUTH
"All parents must set a strong example of faith in the home. Your children
are being subject to much error and much soul destruction outside your home.
Discipline and truth must be brought to the children. The greatest
responsibility for these children will be given to the parents. Guard their
souls well.” - Our Lady July 1, 1973
A HARD PRICE
"Your children must be protected against the world, your world of evil.
Better that they starve their bodies than to starve their souls. The seeking of
worldly gain has sent many souls into hell. The example being shown in many
homes is abominable. Many parents will pay a hard price in the loss of the
Kingdom for their lack of discipline and proper direction of the souls entrusted
to them.” - Our Lady, May 10, 1973
BE FIRM
"Man has lost his purity. All parents must guard the children's souls. Be firm
with your children. The fashions grieve all Heaven.
"The time is short, so you must make reparation now, and learn to recognize
the signs. You must be guided by the light. The Holy Spirit will always be with
you. Remain close to My Son. So many will be lost.” - Our Lady, August 5,
1970
ALL ABOUT YOU
"All about you, you see the disobedience of children. In your schools, your
government, your churches--where is the respect, the honor to your God?
"O you blind, foolish parents who do not recognize the products of your
laxity! The blow, it will be visited upon you; for as you sow, so shall you
reap. Yes, you parents are filling the bodies and minds with luxuries, but you
have chosen to starve the souls of your children. Your children are being led
farther into the darkness. We do not see the light ahead for them.” - Our
Lady, July 25, 1971
GROW MORE DISOBEDIENT AND ARROGANT
“Children grow more disobedient and arrogant to parents. Man has lost the
true meaning of love and charity of neighbor.
"I counsel you all to take your Book of life, Bible, and become
knowledgeable of these latter days. The plan for the days ahead is covered quite
thoroughly in this Book of life.
"Man would find his way to the Kingdom if he would cast aside the soul
destroyers that he now has in his home, which destroy not only his soul but the
souls of innocent children. For the love of money, these soul destroyers flood
your earth.
"The time will come, without your prayers and actions, when you will no
longer recognize sin as sin. You will become accustomed to sin as a way of life.
The numbers to be saved in the final count will be in the few.” - Our Lady,
July 15, 1973
FIRMNESS IS NEEDED
"I wish that all fathers of households stand forth and practice their role. They
will use the rod and not permit their children to go astray. Firmness is needed
in your world that is filled with laxity, permissiveness, and degradation.
"Your children have been misled by many who shall answer to the Father. As
teachers they have failed in their role. Therefore, as parents you must succeed
in yours.” - St. Joseph, March 18, 1973
STRONG DISCIPLINE AND LOVE
"I have asked you, I have directed you, as your Mother, to retire--retire
from your world that has been given to satan. You must earn your daily bread by
living in the world, but you must not become of the world. Your children must be
guided with a strong discipline and love. But this love must be coming from the
light, My children, for so few cry love, and they have lost the true meaning of
love. For love is your God the Father in Heaven.” - Our Lady, September 7,
1976
ONLY PATH
"Man has set himself into the web of satan by straying from the path given
by the Father. Discipline, self-discipline, and obedience to the rules of God
are the only path." - Our Lady, November 24, 1973
Directives from Heaven
D16
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Role of Parents 
PDF
D65
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The Home PDF
D167
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The
Family - Part 1 PDF
D168
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The
Family - Part 2
PDF
D183
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Sex
Education
PDF
D235 -
Disciplining
Children
PDF
Videos online:
The Holy Bible on child discipline
Vatican
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World
Monetary Crash
Deception
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Third
Secret Fabrication
The
Miraculous Story of Bayside
A
Pilgrimage to Our Lady of the Roses Shrine
Jacinta's
Third Secret vision: She saw Pope Paul VI